HOW TO KISS GREAT!

 

Here are tips and advice on how to be a great kisser
so your kisses are unforgettable!

Whether you've never had your first kiss or
have kissed and been kissed a million times
before, you'll find out:
� How to make that first kiss special!
� How to hold that special someone when you're kissing!
� Special kisses (tips and advice)
� French kissing -- how to do it right!

How to kiss shyness goodbye!

We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way it's so perfect, and the way it just happens. But real life is different. You're with that special someone at the movies. You want to kiss. But does he? Is he shy? Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss
him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the
one who's shy. That's why kissing games are so popular.

Spin the bottle

The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other kissing games are so popular is that they let
you kiss someone without having to admit that you like the person you're kissing. You're kissing because you have to. Kissing games are also a good way to try
different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle," a group of guys and girls sit in a circle,
and take turns spinning a bottle. When the bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's pointing to.  But what if you're not playing a kissing game? How can you tell he wants to kiss you? 

How to tell if he wants to kiss you!

After you've kissed him once, you know he wants to kiss you. But what if you two have never kissed? The first kiss is the hardest. You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading his mind. Here are some ways. He could have worked on the work project with someone else, but
he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat, but he called you. It all means he likes to hang out with you. And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you're together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.

How to get him to kiss you

Sometimes people who are nervous send out mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away." First of all your posture should be open. Sit or stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the
ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or, instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!" Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain
you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands on your neck. Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

How to kiss

When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head slightly to one side, so your noses won't get in the way. What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss! Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes. On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...

French kissing (or Frenching)

French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.) So, after you've started kissing, the next step is that either he will slip his tongue into your mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on. Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!)

Kissing with glasses, braces, or peircings

If either of you wears glasses, just take them off before kissing. If either has braces, the important thing not to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of his mouth. Ouch! If you both have braces, don't worry! During normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they can't get tangled up with each other! You have to be careful of lip peircings also, it depends on where the peircing is and how long the other person has had it.

Kissing do's and dont's

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and onions just before. Or at least make sure you're both eating spicy food, so neither will notice. Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's as gross as kissing an ashtray! You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or after you kiss. The other person won't understand it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

Kissing and health

Can you "catch something" by kissing? Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to
a pretty serious sexually transmitted disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it could be transmitted by kissing someone who has the disease, especially if you have any cuts in your mouth. There's no such thing as 100% safety. But if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until it's over. If you see he's got sores on his mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses your chance of passing on infection.  don't want to make you paranoid, but just to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing" so keep that in mind.

Kissing and s-e-x

Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just because you kiss a guy you have to do anything more. On the other hand, once you're kissing passionatley, you might both feel like going further. The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in a movie theater or on your front porch, you know it's not going to lead to sex right there! On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed,
there's not really anything to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid. 'm not trying to tell you how to run your life, just telling you what's worked for me.

Practice makes perfect!

The only way to get good at kissing is to practice. Have fun!

Hugs & Kisses!!~~ECHO