ANAL INTERCOURSE & THE JOYS OF IT!

Topic: Anal Intercourse and the Joys it can bring!

I myslef love anal intercourse. It makes me cum and squirt twice as hard as from normal intercourse. Why? The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that feel great when stimulated by a finger, toy, tongue, or penis. Once inserted, a penis, butt plug, stap-on, or beads will feel good against a man's prostate, and it can also indirectly stimulate a woman's G spot since the wall between the vagina and the anus is so thin.

Ready to learn how to have anal sex with your partner?

If you're a man, that will involve inserting your penis into your partner's butt. If you're a woman, you'll be anally penetrating your partner with a strap-on dildo. What�s the appeal? The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings that feel great when stimulated by a finger, toy, tongue, or penis. Anal intercourse can also stimulate men's prostates and indirectly stimulate women's G-spots. What's not to like about that!

Communication is key:

If your partner has never experimented with anal play, you need to discuss the idea in depth beforehand. Your first step is bringing it up and letting your partner know you're interested. You could talk about it as a much desired fantasy, you could read or watch some erotica depicting anal sex, or you could go sex toy shopping together and stray to the anal toys isle! Make sure you're both on board--you really don't want to surprise your partner with this one.

Time for penetration:

Once you�ve gotten a finger in, pull it out and give your well-lubed penis or dildo a turn. Grasp it near the top and guide the tip into the rectum. Have your partner push out again as you push in from behind. Push very gently, just enough to pass the sphincter. Then stop and let your partner get used to the sensation. If you're using a dildo with a vibrator, turn the vibrator on so you can both feel the vibrations. When your partner's ready, ask whether he or she�d prefer that you control the thrusting motion. Your partner may be more comfortable easing back onto your penis or dildo at first. Make sure your partner lets you know what angle and depth of penetration feels good, as well as the speed and pacing. Don�t withdraw completely (unless your partner requests it), as getting past the anal sphincter is probably the most challenging part for beginners.

 A note to the ladies with strap ons:

Even though the dildo is attached to your body, you can't feel it, so in the beginning it might help to put one hand around the base of the penis and guide your toy in and out for awhile until you get comfortable with the rhythm.Should you find you need more lube (and you can never have enough during anal play!), withdraw your dildo about two-thirds of the way, apply fresh lube to the shaft, and re-insert.

Add other stimulation:

As your partner gets increasingly turned on by the anal penetration, invite him to play with his penis or her to play with her clitoris. Your partner may find that your movements create pleasant friction between his or her genitals and the bed, or he or she may want to back up a bit and masturbate. When your partner's ready to cum, keep up your thrusting unless you're asked to stop. Don�t stop until your partner's finished cuming, and check in soon after as he or she may want you to remove the penis or dildo quickly.

Tips:

1. Experiment with different positions. Instead of the rear entry position, try the missionary position, with your partner's legs pointed toward the ceiling. This position, as well as the side-by-side position are great beginner�s anal sex positions, because it�s easier to fully relax the anus.
2. If it hurts, you're doing something wrong. Never proceed if your partner is in pain. If you focus on relaxing your anus, you shouldn't feel pain.
3. You can explore anal sex in the shower, which helps you stay slippery (use a silicone-based lube so it won't wash away), and alleviates any fear of uncleanliness.
4. If you have trouble at first, consider masturbating with some anal : butt plugs, anal dildos, and anal beads, can all be a nice introduction to anal play.

ENJOY!! AS ALWAYS "DON'T KNOCK IT TILL YOU'VE TRIED IT!"

~~Hugs & Kisses~~~ECHO